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Bring on the Waterworks - Movies That Make Men Cry

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Admit it, dude. It's happened to the best of us. You accidentally find yourself in a movie theater full of weeping women, desperately wishing you could bolt for the nearest window. But it's OK, you think: You aren't there by choice. But there's a more stealthy group of tearjerkers created specifically with you in mind. In an effort to help you maintain your manly cool, read on for a breakdown of movies specifically designed to get guys choked up or teary-eyed. Avoid watching these in public. 

Category 1: The Underdog Athlete Achieves the Impossible

You've watched the unlikely hero struggle against all odds to make the team. But that's not enough. Boys don't just want to be professional athletes; they want to be carried off the field. In these movies, the achievement all men dream of is possible. Hell, that underdog seeking redemption could be you!


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Best Example: Rudy
Who can resist Rudy (Sean Astin)? He's just like 99 percent of the male population: Too short, too small, too slow. Two scenes come to mind for stealth waterworks: First, Notre Dame's stars walk into Coach Devine's office and tell him that if Rudy doesn't dress, they don't play. Second, the final scene when the crowd chanting "Rudy, Rudy, Rudy" forces the reluctant coach to send the pint-sized bench-warmer out on the field. Brutal!


Honorable Mentions: Rocky, The Natural

Category 2: The Warrior Dies for the Greater Good
In the real world, hardcore heroism is terrifying. Sure, you have what it takes, but that doesn't mean you're in a rush to prove it. So consider Braveheart's penultimate scene: William Wallace (Mel Gibson) responds with a shout of "Freedom" when his torturers tell him to beg for mercy. Or the noble effort of Jed (Patrick Swayze) to carry his wounded brother (Charlie Sheen) to safety after a battle with the invading Soviets in Red Dawn. Take your teary pick.

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Best Example: Saving Private Ryan
Steven Spielberg's epic packs three solid hours of emotional peaks and valleys. Frankly, it's exhausting. If it doesn't get you with its brutal opening scene, where soldier after soldier is gunned down at Normandy, then it will hit you some other time in the trenches. Most likely the killing blow will be when an elderly Ryan visits Miller's grave and breaks down, telling Miller "I've tried to live my life the best I could. I hope that at least in your eyes, I've earned what all of you have done for me." Unlikely, but still...

Honorable Mentions: Braveheart, Red Dawn

Category 3: Estranged Fathers and Sons Reconcile
If you've ever laughed at those old Folgers commercials where important father/son moments happen over a cup of instant coffee on a log cabin porch, you've probably realized that men aren't conditioned to be particularly emotive. Thankfully, filmmakers can construct scenes of reconciliation, built around death or distance.

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Best Example: Field of Dreams
Any list of movies for guys to cry over would be incomplete without a good Kevin Costner pic. Everything about these movies is manufactured to tug at male heart-strings. In Field of Dreams, the yearning for a simpler era combines with a surrogate father/son relationship between Ray (Costner) and baseball author Terrence (James Earl Jones). But taking in a game at Fenway Park, traveling through time to meet an icon, and finally seeing players come to the field Ray built are nothing when compared to the final scene in which the ghost of Ray's father comes back so he and Ray can play a game of catch.

Honorable Mentions: Frequency, Big Fish

brianssong125.jpg Category 4: Brian's Song

Brian's Song gets its own category since it's the standard answer to the question, "What movie could make you cry?"  Like Rudy from Category 1, this one has an underdog athlete struggling first to make the team, then a deadly cancer (which takes a page right out of Category 2). When Gale Sayers (Billy Dee Williams) accepts an award and dedicates it to his dying friend, Brian Piccolo (James Caan), with the immortal worlds "I love Brian Piccolo. And I'd like all of you to love him too," just about any man with a heart will lose it. Actually, make that any man, period.

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Tags: braveheart, brian's song, field of dreams, red dawn, rudy, saving private ryan

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Although not by any means an Academy Award type of film, Best of the Best with Eric Roberts and Phillip Rhee would always bring a tear to my eye.

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You have got to be kidding!

Who cries over Rudy, Braveheart, or Red Dawn???

What a bunch of wussies!

I can see Field of Dreams and Brian's song and *maybe* Saving Private Ryan.

Still, you left out the one movie that all men cried over at some time or another: Old Yeller!

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You have got to be kidding!

Who cries over Rudy, Braveheart, or Red Dawn???

What a bunch of wussies!

I can see Field of Dreams and Brian's song and *maybe* Saving Private Ryan.

Still, you left out the one movie that all men cried over at some time or another: Old Yeller!

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You're forgetting The Dirty Dozen. It makes Tom Hanks and Victor Garber cry in Sleepless in Seatle. The best part of the movie.

Sam Baldwin: Although I cried at the end of "the Dirty Dozen."
Greg: Who didn't?
Sam Baldwin: Jim Brown was throwing these hand grenades down these airshafts. And Richard Jaeckel and Lee Marvin
[Begins to cry]
Sam Baldwin: were sitting on top of this armored personnel carrier, dressed up like Nazis...
Greg: [Crying too] Stop, stop!
Sam Baldwin: And Trini Lopez...
Greg: Yes, Trini Lopez!
Sam Baldwin: He busted his neck while they were parachuting down behind the Nazi lines...
Greg: Stop.
Sam Baldwin: And Richard Jaeckel - at the beginning he had on this shiny helmet...
Greg: [Crying harder] Please no more. Oh God! I loved that movie.

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Funny piece!

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when i saw this in the theatre, it was the scene where Tom Hanks cries that almost got me. then at the end, when a grown James Ryan asks his wife if he lived a good life, half the theatre was sobbing. i've never experienced that at a movie before.

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I've heard that a lot of men cry at Lord of the Rings, which would seem to fall into Category 2.

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The end of Big Fish absolutely destroys any man who ever had a father. The rest of these movies are so-so on the man-tear-ometer.

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Hoosiers and Mr. Holland's Opus. Radio. Remember the Titans. The Great Santini.

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I was literally moved into tears when i watched "saving private ryan", it touched me a lot, there are many other movies whihc have not come up in the list that had touched me like the meg ryan & nicholas cage starer "city of angels", and many more....
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